Cantor Arik Wollheim

Congregation Agudath Sholom
301 Strawberry Hill Ave
Stamford, CT 06902
(203)-358-2200

www.cas-stamford.org

Friday, December 21, 2012

Report from the Board of Directors

Congregation Agudath Sholom Update

Dear Congregants,

This past Tuesday evening, the Board of Directors and the Personnel Committee completed a lengthy, thorough, and quite difficult process.   Cantor Arik Wollheim, who has served our congregation for eleven years, including six years full-time here in Stamford and five years on a part-time basis from Jerusalem, will be concluding his service to the congregation.  

We reached this decision at the end of a process that stretched for more than a year, with countless hours of effort from our hard-working volunteers.   We have read dozens of letters from congregants, we have reviewed and built upon the work of previous Boards and previous Personnel Committees, and we have invested many, many evenings in discussions and interviews.  Throughout this process, we have endeavored to treat the Cantor with respect, and to do the same for all of the many people who have been willing to share their thoughts and opinions.   Let me take this opportunity to thank the Cantor, our volunteers, and everyone who has committed time and energy to this process; we are deeply grateful for your efforts.

The Board has voted to form a search committee to look for a new Cantor.  If you have any questions or suggestions regarding the search, please feel free to contact any member of the Board, Executive Committee, Finance Committee, or Personnel Committee -- contact information is available on our website (www.cas-stamford.org) -- select Clergy and Staff, then Board of Directors and Committees.

As most of you know, many of my own best experiences in the synagogue have been when I have worked together with Cantor Wollheim, whether it has been in the High Holiday choir, the Agudat Shir mixed choir, or his concerts and special events.  Cantor Wollheim has a rare and special musical talent, he has a unique and beautiful voice, and he can never be completely replaced.

For many of you, this change means you are losing a clergy member, a choir director, a friend.   Please know that the Board, Personnel Committee and Executive Committee are fully committed to concluding our relationship with the Cantor in a spirit of dignity, respect, and friendship.

On behalf of the Board, I ask each of you for your understanding and your support as we wish farewell to Cantor Wollheim, and as we begin the search for our next Cantor.   We thank Cantor Wollheim for all of the many contributions he has made to our congregation, and all the ways, big and small, that he has helped our members.   We wish the Cantor, Tehilah, Yehudit and their families every success in the future. 

Wishing each of you Shabbat Shalom,
Ira Berk, President
Congregation Agudath Sholom 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

301 Strawberry Hill Avenue, Stamford, CT  (203) 358-2200 

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Congregation Agudath Sholom Update

Dear Congregants,

This past Tuesday evening, the Board of Directors and the Personnel Committee completed a lengthy, thorough, and quite difficult process.   Cantor Arik Wollheim, who has served our congregation for eleven years, including six years full-time here in Stamford and five years on a part-time basis from Jerusalem, will be concluding his service to the congregation.  

We reached this decision at the end of a process that stretched for more than a year, with countless hours of effort from our hard-working volunteers.   We have read dozens of letters from congregants, we have reviewed and built upon the work of previous Boards and previous Personnel Committees, and we have invested many, many evenings in discussions and interviews.  Throughout this process, we have endeavored to treat the Cantor with respect, and to do the same for all of the many people who have been willing to share their thoughts and opinions.   Let me take this opportunity to thank the Cantor, our volunteers, and everyone who has committed time and energy to this process; we are deeply grateful for your efforts.

The Board has voted to form a search committee to look for a new Cantor.  If you have any questions or suggestions regarding the search, please feel free to contact any member of the Board, Executive Committee, Finance Committee, or Personnel Committee -- contact information is available on our website (www.cas-stamford.org) -- select Clergy and Staff, then Board of Directors and Committees.

As most of you know, many of my own best experiences in the synagogue have been when I have worked together with Cantor Wollheim, whether it has been in the High Holiday choir, the Agudat Shir mixed choir, or his concerts and special events.  Cantor Wollheim has a rare and special musical talent, he has a unique and beautiful voice, and he can never be completely replaced.

For many of you, this change means you are losing a clergy member, a choir director, a friend.   Please know that the Board, Personnel Committee and Executive Committee are fully committed to concluding our relationship with the Cantor in a spirit of dignity, respect, and friendship.

On behalf of the Board, I ask each of you for your understanding and your support as we wish farewell to Cantor Wollheim, and as we begin the search for our next Cantor.   We thank Cantor Wollheim for all of the many contributions he has made to our congregation, and all the ways, big and small, that he has helped our members.   We wish the Cantor, Tehilah, Yehudit and their families every success in the future. 

Wishing each of you Shabbat Shalom,
Ira Berk, President
Congregation Agudath Sholom 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

301 Strawberry Hill Avenue, Stamford, CT  (203) 358-2200 

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Friday, November 30, 2012

Shalom from Jerusalem

Shalom from Jerusalem

Cantor Arik Wollheim 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

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Cantor Wollheim

Shabbat Parashat Vayishlach

15 Kislev 5773

November 29th 2012

 

Shalom,

 

Anyone with an Israeli driver's license is also familiar with the points system. According to the points system, one is penalized for every traffic violation where the more extreme the violation is, the more points you he/she is given. In 21 years of driving, yours truly has collected two speeding tickets, and accumulated 12 points- meaning I needed to spend 20 hours in a course for traffic violators to clear my record. I decided to squeeze it into three long days this week and to then take an exam (which, by the way, I've passed ).


In the class, I met people from every walk of life; young and old, men and women, Sephardim and Ashkenazim, religious and secular, and people from every socioeconomic background. When you end up in a class like that, where you spend long hours with Israelis, you discover two things: one, they cannot leave their cell phones for even a second, and two, Israelis will immediately try to work the system to their specific needs. For example, before the instructor even walked in for the first session, someone had already suggested we shorten the breaks so that we could all leave earlier and a second suggested that we should cancel the breaks and start a bit later since too difficult to get to class during rush hour.

 

In the course, you don't learn anything you didn't know before. The idea is to refresh what one already knows and possibly forgot with time, or to highlight issues you've missed or forgot to pay attention to over the years.

 

Even though it's annoying, I think that refreshment course once every couple of years is probably a good idea for every driver (especially in Israel) who really wants to stay safe on the roads.

 

I was then wondering, in how many aspects of our lives would it have been beneficiary for us to take a "refreshment course"?!

 

In our professional lives we all go to conferences, take advanced courses, and try to stay ahead of the game, but what about our spiritual lives? Or our personal relationships with our loved ones?!

 

Perhaps, if we took an occasional refreshing course, even though we wouldn't learn anything new, we could benefit from rediscovering something we've forgotten over the years?

 

And wouldn't it be nice if we didn't need a threat or a point system in order to do that?!

 

Shabbat Shalom from Jerusalem, 

Cantor Arik Wollheim
 

P.S  It's now Friday morning and I'm about to send out this message. A few minutes ago, I received a phone call informing me of a funeral of a friend of mine that is about to take place in couple of hours. The deceased, Yisrael Munk, a 26 years old newlywed with a 9 months old baby, a talented musician, conductor, accompanist and a wonderful human being, left his home in Jerusalem on Sunday, and since then was missing until his car was found beneath a bridge last night near Tz'fat. It seems that he lost control over his car. I know that the rate of car accidents in the US is not as high as it is in Israel (where it's a real epidemic), but if there's one thing I relearned from the course this week, and even more so this morning, is that is far better to lose one moment in life than losing life in one moment.

 

Wishing you a Shabbat Shalom and I'm looking forward to seeing you all in Shul next Shabbat,


 

 

 

Shabbat Shalom from Jerusalem,

Cantor Arik Wollheim

 

 

Cantor Arik Wollheim

email: awollheim@cas-stamford.org 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford, CT 06902

Phone:203-358-2200  Fax: 203 358-2323

website: www.cas-stamford.org 


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Friday, November 23, 2012

Shalom from Jerusalem

Shalom from Jerusalem

Cantor Arik Wollheim 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

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Cantor Wollheim

Shabbat Parashat Vayetze

9 Kislev 5773

November 22nd 2012

 

Shalom,

 

I never take day flights. The timing is inconvenient, you lose valuable time, and most passengers are awake so it's noisy and far more difficult to cope with jetlag. Nevertheless, my last flight to Israel on Monday was a day flight. If you ask how come?! The answer is Price. Even though there's usually not much of a difference, this flight was significantly cheaper so I was convinced to take it.


I arrived early Tuesday morning after a long sleepless flight. I finally made it home realizing I can enjoy couple of hours of quite before Tehilah and Yehudit would return home so I tried to get some rest. Those who know me know that it's almost an impossible task for me to fall asleep during the day. Nevertheless, after a while I fell asleep. I was probably asleep for 20 minutes, when I was woken up by a siren. It took me a few seconds to realize where I was and what I should do. Tehilah called to make sure I was awake and to ask if I remembered where I should go and what I should do, as this was the first siren I'd heard in 20 years. I quickly got dressed and made it to the hallway outside my apartment when I heard the boom. Then, everything was back to "normal". Thank God, once again, nothing happened.   

The 90 seconds from the moment the siren started till I heard the boom felt like a déjà vu to 1991, during the gulf war.  

Back then, my family and I were in the front line and the first missile landed on our street. I remember that night vividly. I heard the sirens (already back then I was a light sleeper), ran to my parent's room where they were still asleep, woke them up and ran to bring my brother who was still sleeping. As soon as we all were in the protected room with the door shut, adjusting our gas masks, we heard the boom. It was so strong and loud, but we never thought (or wanted to believe) it was so close. That was one of the longest nights of my life; we listened to the radio, and were not allowed to leave the sealed room till the morning. 


In the morning we discovered we had no more windows or shutters. Among all the mess, I found a piece from the Iraqi "skad" on my pillow. We had to move to my aunt's house where we stayed until the end of the war.   

As horrible as that was, 20 years later, most of my memories from that time are good and funny. We tend to look back with humor at unthinkable situations, finding the amusing aspect, perhaps to attempt to forget the fear and danger that we experienced. I wonder if it's because I was only a high school kid and not a parent. How will I remember this war when my now my first concern is for my wife and baby?!  

The ceasefire became a fact after writing the paragraphs above, and now, with relief, we say "Hodu Lashem Ki Tov Ki Le'Olam Hasdo" (Give thanks to God for His kindness endures forever).


Speaking of the word "Hodu" (Give thanks), I'm writing these lines on Thanksgiving, which requires further discussion as the Hebrew word for Turkey is also "Hodu".  

One might falsely think that since it's customary to eat turkeys on Thanksgiving, Eliezer Ben Yehudah (the first Modern Hebrew Linguistic) has decided to call the bird Hodu. The truth however, is different. The word "Hodu" in Hebrew is also referred to the country, India. Similar to the reason we mistakenly call Native Americans "Indians" we call turkey "Hodu" after the place Columbus only thought he came to.  

 

This Thanksgiving we have much to be thankful for. Operation "Pillar of Defense" could have easily ended with a greater number of casualties and destruction, and we thank God for His Kindness which endures forever.  

 

 

Shabbat Shalom from Jerusalem,

Cantor Arik Wollheim

 

 

Cantor Arik Wollheim

email: awollheim@cas-stamford.org 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford, CT 06902

Phone:203-358-2200  Fax: 203 358-2323

website: www.cas-stamford.org 


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Friday, November 9, 2012

Shalom from Jerusalem

Shalom from Jerusalem

Cantor Arik Wollheim 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

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Cantor Wollheim

Shabbat Parashat Chaye Sarah

Cheshvan 24th 5773

November 9, 2012

 

Shalom,

 

I'm glad the weather is cooperating with our plans for the weekend and allowed me to arrive safely to Stamford.

I'm looking forward to see you all on Shabbat and on Motza'ei Shabbat at 7:30 PM at my annual concert.

"Hineh Mah Tov Umah Na'im Shevet Achim Gam Yachad"   (Behold, how good it is when we dwell together) as we come together as one community celebrating our unity with songs and music.

 

Please join me and our Agudath Shir Choir as we host Cantor George Mordecai of Temple Beth El and Cantor Asa Fradkin of Temple Sholom tomorrow night at 7:30 PM for a special celebration that will continue to inspire for many years to come.

 

Shabbat Shalom from Stamford,

Cantor Arik Wollheim

 

 

Cantor Arik Wollheim

email: awollheim@cas-stamford.org 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford, CT 06902

Phone:203-358-2200  Fax: 203 358-2323

website: www.cas-stamford.org 


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Sunday, September 23, 2012

Shalom from Cantor Wollheim

Cantor Arik Wollheim 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

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Cantor Wollheim

On behalf of the entire Wollheim family I would like to wish you a G'mar Chatima Tovah.  May you and all your loved ones be sealed in the book of life and may the new  year bring you health, joy, simcha, success and good news.   

 

Looking forward to davening with you and seeing you soon,   

Cantor Arik Wollheim

 

Cantor Arik Wollheim

email: awollheim@cas-stamford.org 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford, CT 06902

Phone:203-358-2200  Fax: 203 358-2323

website: www.cas-stamford.org 


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Friday, September 7, 2012

Shalom from Jerusalem

Shalom from Jerusalem

Cantor Arik Wollheim 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

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Cantor Wollheim

 

Shabbat Parashat

 Ki Tavo Elul 20 5772

 September 7, 2012

 

Shalom,

 

It's definitely in the air!  The preparations for the High Holidays have begun!  Everyone prepares in their own way, with the mundane things, such as meal planning and shopping, but there are also many other forms of preparation, perhaps even more important than those. 

 

Years ago,  a funny television commercial aired, in which you see a cow holding a sign that  says "eat more chicken."   I was reminded of that recently because of another controversy that has been reignited in advance of the High Holidays.   

It concerns a custom called "kaparot" (rarely seen, if at all, in Stamford CT in 2012) that is still very popular among many both in Israel and in other ultra religious communities in the world. The custom is connected to Yom Kippur, and involves whirling a chicken above one's head while reciting a prayer. The idea is that an individual's sins will be transferred to the chicken, thereby allowing us to begin the New Year with a clean slate. The word "kaparot" literally means "atonements." The name stems from the belief that a chicken can atone for an individual's sins by ritually transferring one's misdeeds to the animal before it is slaughtered.

The controversy regarding the custom of "kaparot" is taking place this time on facebook. Two women, one religious and one secular, started a clever and original campaign, against the use of chickens in the observance of the custom.  They  call upon people to substitute money or coins, rather than using live chickens and then slaughtering them, to be absolved of punishment for their sins.   So far over 200 people joined the facebook page "Kaparot - for life and not for death," http://www.facebook.com/KaparotBematbeot 

Many thousands of people responded.

The practice of kaparot likely began among the Jews of Babylonia. It is mentioned in Jewish writings from the 9th century and was widespread by the 10th century. Though rabbis at the time condemned the practice, Rabbi Moses Isserles approved it and as a result kaparot became a custom in some Jewish communities. Among the rabbis who objected to kaparot were the Ramban and Rabbi Joseph Karo, both well-known Jewish sages. In his Shulchan Arukh, Rabbi Karo wrote of kaparot: "The custom of kaparot... is a practice that ought to be prevented."

 

Kaparot can be performed anytime between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, but most often takes place the day before Yom Kippur. Men use a rooster, while women use a hen. The ritual begins by reciting verses from the bible and then the rooster or hen is whirled above the individual's head three times while the following words are recited: "This is my substitute, my vicarious offering, my atonement. The rooster or hen shall meet death, but I shall enjoy a long, pleasant life of peace."  After these words are said the chicken is slaughtered and either eaten by the person who performed the ritual or given to the poor. Because kaparot is a controversial custom, in modern times, those who practice kaparot will often substitute money wrapped in white cloth for the chicken. The same biblical verses are recited, and then the money is swung about the head three times as with the chicken. At the conclusion of the ceremony the money is given to charity.

 

Rivka Yibarov, a graphic designer, posted on the new page under the slogan: Tza'ar Ba'alei Chain Hu Lo Hidur Mitzvah, or: avoiding cruelty to animals is not beautification of a mitzvah.  There are several pictures of roosters with clever and funny captions, all designed to bring attention to the custom, and to encourage eliminating it in this form. 

 

Yibarov and her partner in this initiative, Elena Aims, say their target population consists of the religious and Haredi ones and therefore they do not challenge the custom itself.   Their arguments are based on legitimate halachic opinions. For example, they explain that avoiding animal cruelty is an important Mitzvah while kaparot is only a custom. Trying not to create antagonism to the campaign, they use both quotes as well as video clips of Rabbis who share their view.  For example: "What is common to Rabbi Aviner, Rabbi Hayim David Halevi and Rabbi Kaduri (all well known rabbis in Israel)?! They all recommend performing kaparot with money because of the mitzvah of preventing cruelty against animals."

 

While, as I mentioned before, some Rabbinic authorities refute the custom altogether, Yibarov and Aims claim kaparot as a concept is a beautiful custom and similar to many others. They also added a link to a Chabbad website that enables the donation of the kaparot money "without leaving the house".

 

They also explain that this is a private campaign that is not supported by any of the funds for Jewish pluralism or liberalism. They add that we should pity the animals even in the case of an ancient and popular costume since there's another way to maintain it. Especially during this time of the year, just like we want compassion extended to us, so we should show compassion for all living creatures.  

 

I doubt if anyone in our shul is considering using a rooster for kaparot this year, but in case you are, please check the facebook page.

 

Nevertheless, this custom reminds me of rituals that seem no longer relevant or that do not sit well  with our practices as people, living in the western world during the 21st century. While some practices like kaparot are easy to settle, modernize, or solve, others are more challenging.  For example: in the Amidah of every Musaf we ask God to restore the Temple so we can bring the proper sacrifices of the day. Do we really mean that? Does any of us identify with slaughtering animals as a form of service replacing our prayers?!

 

While some say yes to that question I believe that most would say no.  Therefore, we return to the question about why we do not change the text?

 

I believe that the reason has to do with practicality. We are more concerned with the immediate impact on the life of the rooster rather than the theoretical impact of our rituals at the time of the Messiah. I think that the Rabbis rightly decided to deal with "what we do know" rather than "with what we do not know." For example, there is a debate among the Rabbis whether animal sacrifices will be part of our ritual in the Third Temple.  There is no reason to change the text transferred to us from our fathers. We all pray for the rebuilding of the Temple, but the truth is, we have no idea what would happen at that time.  In the mean time we are not allowed to make changes.   We must trust God to understand,  even if we have no idea what we are talking about.

 

I am looking forward to see you all in shul on Shabbat and would like to take this opportunity to invite you to services as we start to recite Selichot in preparation for Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur.

 

Wishing you all a Shabbat Shalom from Stamford,

Cantor Arik Wollheim

 

 

Cantor Arik Wollheim

email: awollheim@cas-stamford.org 

Congregation Agudath Sholom

301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford, CT 06902

Phone:203-358-2200  Fax: 203 358-2323

website: www.cas-stamford.org 


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