Cantor Arik Wollheim

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Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Shalom From Stamford


SHALOM FROM STAMFORD
Shalom,

Many of you are familiar with the two doctrines in the Mishna the house of Shamai and the house of Hillel. They are known for their opposite opinions with regards to Hallachic issues and with regards to Chanukah they argue about the number of candles we should light each day. According to the house of Shamai one should start with eight candles and decrease one candle each day and the house of Hillel says that we start with one and increase one candle every day. Each opinion based on a solid ground for its argument and if that's the case why do we follow the opinion of Hillel? The argument went on and on and finally the Mishna explains that "Ma'alin Bakodesh V'ein Moridin" one should always increase the holiness and not decrease.

I think that perhaps Chanukah, the festival of lights, represents more than any other holiday the message of growing and increasing when it comes to holiness. As we light the Chanukah candles, every day we add a light may we also add holiness to our lives, our families, our friends and community and every aspect of our lives.


On my Behalf, my wife Tehilah and the entire CAS family I wish you a happy Chanukah full of lights and holiness.


Cantor Arik Wollheim


 

PLEASE NOTE-Due to the absence of Rabbi Cohen and Rabbi Walk, I ask for your assistance in maintaining the minyanim at the shul and also at the home of Andrew and Janet Bein this week.

I thank you for your co-operation.




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Thursday, November 11, 2010

Shalom From Jerusalem


SHALOM FROM JERUSALEM


Shabbat Parashat Vayetze Kislev 4 5771 Nov 11th 2010


Shalom,


I'm sure that at this point, less than a week before the concert (but just in case-Nov 16th at 7:30 PM at the shul) everybody is aware planning of attending as well as supporting the concert financially. And since this is the case I can write about something else...


Recently, I read the best -selling novel, The Lost Symbol by Dan Brown (courtesy of long flights).  He also wrote several other novels, including The Da Vinci Code, and Angels and Demons, which are very well known, as they have been made into hit movies starring Tom Hanks.   I do not want to ruin the plot twists for those who have not read the book, but I will tell you that we again encounter the hero, Robert Langdon, professor of Religious Symbology at Harvard University.  He quickly finds himself both consultant and detective, as he is brought in to solve a mystery taking place this time in Washington D.C., involving the fraternal organization known as the Freemasons.  

 

Freemasonry arose from obscure origins in the late 16th Century, C.E.  Its central themes include the need to do charitable work, live by moral principles, have a belief in a Supreme Being, and promote the development of loyal friendships within a tight community.  The organization is characterized by its rituals, secrets, and complex symbolism.  (Sounds familiar, doesn't it?)  The Masons, or Masonic Order, remains strong and active today, including among its members people from all faiths and all walks of life, astronauts and actors, prime ministers and presidents, several sitting Senators, and notable figures from George Washington to Irving Berlin to Mustafa Kemal Ataturk. 

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As in his other books, we are exposed to Brown's philosophy and perhaps even his theology, although his protagonist considers himself an atheist, or at least an agnostic. Professor Langdon seems to prove that human beings can, in some incredible ways, develop higher powers, and wield them in the world, for good or for evil.  It seems to me that the plot line of the story, which is quite fantastic by itself, is just a vehicle to share the theories or opinions of the writer with the readers.   In this book, Brown's idea of God is that which manifests itself in us humans.  He claims that we have God-like characteristics, and therefore we have the potential or the power to create or do Godly acts.


You may be surprised to find out that our Jewish sources and beliefs share some of these ideas as well.  First we learn that God has created man in His image and our sages tell us that this does not only refer to the physical aspect. In Psalms 82:6 we read "I said, 'You are "gods"; you are all sons of the Most High". The Rambam writes that we should emulate God's attributes; just as God is merciful, we should be merciful as well.  Just as God is holy, we should aspire to holiness as well, etc. Our sources tell us that when we are engaged in Godly acts, we are engaged in the process of "Tikun Olam," or healing the world, and in fact this way we are partnering with God and continuing the act of creation.


So perhaps Dan Brown's point of view is kosher, but not exactly.


But we also believe that there is of course, a fundamental difference between humans and God. After all, if we are gods, how is it possible that we pray to God, cry to God and ask from God?  Two important points need to be considered in this context.  First, we must realize what exactly we mean when we call our actions, "Godly."  Second, what is the role of human beings in making things happen?  If we are looking at acts of kindness as Godly, if by making the world a better place, we are considered Godly, then certainly, we humans are Godly as well.  If we have the capacity to heal the world, then we have the obligation to partner with God in order to make it a better place.  By doing so even we are continuing God's work of creation. 


But these are actions that we as humans have the capacity to do, and we also have the choice of doing them or not. We can choose to be kind, or moral, or honest, or compassionate, or do good for others.  There are other kinds of acts that are not possible for humans to do and these are considered miracles. Only God can make miracles.


Dan Brown claims that a person can rise to a certain level, and induce a state, perhaps by meditation, and one can physically cause things to happen.  One example he cites is the act of prayer.  Furthermore, he claims that many people have more "power" by acting in unison, focusing or praying, together.  Judaism believes in the power of prayer, and a "bigger" or stronger power exists when concentrated in a group setting, such as a Minyan.  However, we have to remember that the only power we really have is to pray and beseech God on our behalf. God is the One who can perform miracles.  Yes, we believe that God may hear our prayers and accept our pleas, but we must not make the mistake of thinking that humans can perform miracles regardless of the intensity of their prayers.


Let us continue in all our efforts to act in Godly way, to emulate the ways of Hashem, to create Tikun Olam.  May God who performs these miracles, listen and hearken to our prayers.


So, in closing, I want to make sure you got the message-come to the concert, buy an ad and bring your friends with you.


Looking forward to seeing you all in shul on Shabbat and at the concert J (did I mention that before?!)


Shabbat Shalom from Stamford,


Cantor Arik Wollheim





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Friday, November 5, 2010

Shalom From Jerusalem


SHALOM FROM JERUSALEM

 

Shabbat Parashat Toldot Cheshvan 28 5771 November 5, 2010

Shalom,

This week's Parasha is called Toldot meaning chronicles or life story. In this parasha we learn that the past and the future are always connected and one cannot understand the present nor succeed in the future without a strong connection to the past.

I would like to take this opportunity and invite you to my 11th annual concert on November 16th at 7:30 PM in the shul. 

 This year's concert connects the past and the future. As you know, we are hosting Zalmen Mlotek in a concert celebrating 100 years of Yiddish theatre Music. Mr Mlotek is an internationally recognized authority on Yiddish folk and theatre music and is a leading figure in the Jewish Theatre and concert worlds.  He is the Artistic Director of the National Yiddish Theater- Folksbiene.

In addition, a portion of the funds that are raised will be used for playground equipment to benefit of our Shul's younger generation.

We are featuring music that is up to 100 years old on one hand (the past), and we are raising funds to help our youth on the other hand (the future). And, here's where you come in: You are the present.  You are the link that can make the connection.

So, here's what I'd like to ask you, come to the concert, bring friends and consider buying an ad--you can do it online or by calling the shul's office.

 

We had a very successful fundraising concert last year and I would like this year's concert to match or even exceed last year. Please help our Shul.

I'm looking forward to seeing you next week.

 

Shabbat Shalom from Jerusalem,

 

Cantor Arik Wollheim






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Friday, October 29, 2010

Shalom From Jerusalem


SHALOM FROM JERUSALEM

Shabbat Chaye Sarah Cheshvan 21 5771 October 29, 2010


Shalom, 


During the last few weeks, our community suffered an unusual number of many sad losses.  Throughout Jewish history different communities created various approaches to similar situations.  However, the common denominator in every case, was the need to have a "cheshbon nesfesh."   Literally translated as an accounting of the soul, it really means more like an effort at introspection and soul searching.


Practices such as communal fast days, reciting slichot, extra prayers, giving tzedaka were instituted by rabbis of communities who suffered many losses because they believed that multiple deaths is a message that "something is wrong."  It is important to understand that these practices are not just old irrelevant traditions but very much alive among many communities.


Of course, this is NOT to imply, directly or indirectly that something is wrong in our community but I do think that this has significance. Perhaps it is more about the fact that death, especially when sudden or multiple,  puts us in a certain state of mind and causes us to think.
   
Throughout these difficult days our community rose to the occasion and performed a tremendous amount of chessed. From the volunteers at the Chevra Kadisha who perform the ritual tahara, to maintaining several daily minyanim, to providing meals to the mourners, reciting Tehilim on behalf of the sick and much more, we saw the potential of our community to answer a call, to do what is necessary, to heal, and to comfort. I think we need to do just such a cheshbon nefesh and ask ourselves why it is that we, as a community, can provide so much in difficult times, but not on a regular basis?!


There is so much need out there and we all should be attending to these needs. Why do we need death to be knocking on our door to go the extra mile for our fellow congregantts, for our friends and neighbors?


May we all incorporate more acts of kindness into our daily lives, may we hear only good news, and may we all be blessed to share many smachot in the future. 


Shabbat Shalom from Jerusalem,

Arik Wollheim






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Thursday, September 16, 2010

Shalom From Stamford

 
SHALOM FROM STAMFORD

Erev Yom Kipur 5771
 
My dear friends Shalom,

I would like to wish us all a G'mar Chatimah Tovah. May Hashem finalize our verdict on this holy Yom Kipur to be one of a good life, full of all G-d's precious gifts. I would also like to take this opportunity and ask for your forgiveness. If I ever harmed or offended you, if I ever did any wrong to you I apologize and say I'm sorry. May we all merit to celebrate Yamim Tovim and S'machot.
I'm looking forward to seeing you all in shul during the holiday. 
 
Shana Tovah,
 
Cantor Arik Wollheim




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Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Shalom From Stamford

 
SHALOM FROM STAMFORD
ROSH HASHANA EVE 5771 SEPT. 8, 2010

I would like to thank you for the trust you have in me to serve as your Shliach Tzibur.  May all of our T'filot be acceptable before Hashem.

On behalf of my self, my wife, Tehilah and the entire Wollheim family, I would like to wish you a happy and healthy new year, a prosperous year full of G-d's precious gifts, a life full of joy happiness and good health.

L'shana Tovah Tikatevu V'techatemu

Cantor Arik Wollheim




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Friday, September 3, 2010

Shalom From Stamford

 
SHALOM FROM STAMFORD
Shabbat Parashat Nitzavim Vayelech Elul 24 5770 Sep 3rd 2010

Shalom,
The forecast predicts a hurricane but I hope it won't keep you from coming to shul on Shabbat and mark the last Shabbat of the year. I urge you all to make an extra effort and come for services during this week as we recite S'lichot as a preparation for the day of Judgement, Rosh Hashana.

Shabbat Shalom from Stamford,

Cantor Arik Wollheim



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Friday, August 20, 2010

Shalom From Jerusalem

 
SHALOM FROM JERUSALEM
Shabbat Parashat Ki Tetze Elul 10th 5770 August 20, 2010
 
Shalom,
 
It was good to see so many of you during my visit and I'm glad I had the honor to attend great S'machot. This has been a difficult summer for our community who suffered great losses and I hope that from now on we will only share times of joy.
 
Two weeks ago I wrote about Chelsea Clinton's wedding and the issue of intermarriage and many of you commented.
Yesterday I came across the story of Joseph and Rebecca Reyes -another example of intermarriage.
 
The story was greatly covered by the news and I will just summarize it. Rebecca Shapiro, a young Jewish attorney from Chicago and Joseph Reyes a Catholic veteran of the US army fell in love and decided to get married in a Jewish wedding. Later on Joseph converted to Judaism (after the divorce he claimed he never stopped being Catholic) and their daughter Ella was born. After four years the marriage ended and now there's a battle between the parties on Ella's religious identity. Without getting into all the details the Jewish community stands behind Rebecca and the Catholic one stands behind Joseph trying to make sure Ella is brought up in the "right" religious milieu. You can read more about the case at: http://abcnews.go.com/2020/TheLaw/rebecca-reyes-speaks-estranged-husband-joseph-jail-taking/story?id=9952082

My question is where were Ella's parents before the divorce? How come nobody cared about the religious identity of the family?
I think that the lesson is that people must stick to their principles. The problem was that the Rabbi who performed the marriage didn't care whether Joseph was Jewish, and the Rabbi who converted Joseph didn't ask why he was doing that. Rebecca did not stay true to her words to marry a Jewish guy and Joseph was not loyal to his principles when he agreed to convert. The lesson is to stick to your principles if you any.  
 
Shabbat Shalom from Jerusalem,
 
Cantor Arik Wollheim

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Friday, August 13, 2010

Shalom From Stamford

 
SHALOM FROM STAMFORD
Shabbat Parashat Shoftim Elul 3 5770 August 13, 2010
 
I'm happy to be back in town and I'm looking forward to seeing you all in shul during Shabbat.

Shalom from Stamford,
 
Cantor Arik Wollheim

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Monday, August 9, 2010

Shalom From Jerusalem

 
SHALOM FROM JERUSALEM
 

Shabbat Parashat Re'eh Menachem Av 26, 5770 August 6th 2010
 
Shalom,
This particular time of year, between the 9th of Av and Rosh Chodesh Elul, is known as "bein hazmanin," or "between the times."  It refers to a period without any holidays or special events on the Jewish calendar. During these few weeks, the yeshivah world, and many others, take their annual vacations. 
 
This reminds me that "bein hazmanim" is also known as the wedding season. It is hard to believe that next week Tehilah and I will be celebrating our first anniversary, as the year has flown by so quickly. Last year our wedding was THE wedding of the year, of course, but that has now been overshadowed by this year's big wedding, the one of Chelsea Clinton and Mark Mezvinsky.
The media covered the wedding in great detail; the dress, the cake, the security arrangements, the secrecy. The response of the Haredi media in Israel was surprising in some respects and predictable in others.  The Haredi newspaper Yated Ne'eman chose to dedicate the lead story of the weekend edition to the "American wedding of the year."  This was an unusual decision, since all of the rest of the Haredi media chose to completely ignore the event.  Such a topic is considered taboo among the Haredi community, and an exception was made in order to spotlight the assimilated reform American Jewish community, or at least the Haredi version of it.
 
The article stated that "we (the newspaper) were not supposed to make any references to this private, family event, alas, there is one detail that cannot be ignored: the groom is Jewish. Obviously, Clinton was not bothered by this minor detail, for him there is no significant difference between marrying a Christian or a Jew.  The problem is that his mechutanim (the groom's parents) also do not care. On contrary, they seem quite happy that their son is becoming the former president's son in law.... The bigger problem is that most of the Jews in America do not care either. On the contrary, many of them feel part of the American nation, as though the religious distinction no longer exists".  The article further claimed: "the groom and his family belong to the Reform movement, and characterized it as the denomination that has as its main vision, the goal of annihilating the Jewish people while uprooting its character and heritage and erasing its unique identity".
 
According to Yated Ne'eman and their unknown sources, the Mezvinsky family encouraged the match, despite being aware that the marriage would "cut off Mark from his people". "This action, especially because of the mass publicity, contributes to the Reform interests. It is a continuation of the horrible Holocaust where millions died.  This is a spiritual holocaust created by these who call themselves Jews."
 
The article concluded with a quote written by the former leader of the Haredi world, Rav Shach, of blessed memory.  "It is unfortunate that we did not merit that these people (Reform Jews) would be removed from the Jewish people. They were not brought up according to Torah Laws and heritage but rather on the values of democracy, with no Torah at all. And even when they see the bankruptcy of their ideals, and even when they are at the gates of hell, they do not repent."
 
This harsh condemnation is incredibly disturbing.  Of course, anyone interested in the future of the Jewish People is concerned about intermarriage and assimilation.  However, when I read this quote I remembered why the Holy Temple was destroyed. Only a few weeks ago we commemorated the 9th of Av .  Chazal, our sages of blessed memory, told us that it was baseless hatred that caused the destruction. I suppose we have not learned much in over 2000 years!
 
The risk of assimilation is a pervasive problem for world Jewry.  That is an enormous topic, and it is impossible to do more than touch on the tip of the iceberg within the confines of this column. 
It is much easier to succumb to the cliché that "love triumphs over all" and get carried away with the idea that romantic love can conquer every problem and bridge the divide between the differences of culture, history and religion.  It is not fun or cool to speak of racial or religious issues such as this, and it is certainly not politically correct to tell the former President and the current Secretary of State of the United States that their daughter has become the symbol of assimilation in North America.
Unfortunately, in far too many cases, the only reason to marry a Jew is that "I can't do it to my Grandmother." If that is the only reason, it is no reason at all!
 
For many years the Reform movement in the United States claimed that intermarriage would bring in "new blood" and consequently increase the number of Jews. However, the larger concern is not even with the particulars of any form of conversion, but rather the decision that conversion, even a Reform one, is no longer required.
 
According to statistics, 67% of the children born into intermarriage do not feel comfortable or connected to either religion. The population of American Jewry was 5.5 million in the 1940's, and 50 years later, the numbers in the 1990 census showed no increase.  Now, the number has dropped to 5.2 million, and it is estimated that by 2020 the number will be dramatically reduced.
It is sad to find out that at the end of the day, it is not a bomb nor war nor terrorism that is killing the Jewish people, but perhaps it is an excess of pluralism and openness, combined with a lack of education and commitment.  Is it a bright spot that Mark Mezvinsky chose to prominently wear a talit and a kipah at his marriage to a practicing Methodist?  Should we take pride in HIS pride in his Jewishness, at reciting the seven blessings, being married under a chuppah with the ketubah in a place of honor?  What was the meaning of the breaking of the glass at this wedding?  It is hard to tell.
 My problem is not with the Reform movement for which I have much respect. My problem is with the unaffiliated, those who do not care enough. I have always said that one can choose his or her denomination and set of practices; however, the problem is that too many of our brothers and sisters choose not to choose at all.
 
I will be arriving in Stamford this week and I am looking forward to seeing you all very soon.
 
Shabbat Shalom from Jerusalem,
Cantor Arik Wollheim
 
**Arik apologizes for the delay of this week's greeting!
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